2. EXPPECTETION- I am not saying you can not expectetion from any other persson or closed relationship, please understand i am saying only if you have expectetion from others and want his/her complet your expectetion than frist you complet expectetion of others.

 Example - agar aap chahte hai ki anay vaykati (chhote or bare ) aapki ijjat kare toh pahle aapko bhi dusroun ki ijjat karni hogi, ( if you want respect from junior than frist give respect to sinior ) agar aap chahte hai ki aapke bachche aapki aashaoun ko pura kare toh pahle sochain ki kya aapne aapne maa-baap ki asha puri ki hai, jab ek nayi bahu ghar mai aati hai toh saas ki bahu se anek ashayai hati hai tik ushi tarah bahu ki bhi apni saas se anek ashayain hoti hai lekin donou hi ek dusre ki ashayain pura nahin kar pati or phir ghar mai kalah hoti hai or pariwar toot jatain hai.

Mera sochana or kahana sirf ye hi hai ki ya toh hum kisi se koi asha na kare or agar asha kartai bhi hai toh agar asha puri nahin hoti toh uska bura maan kar apnai man ko ashant na karai.

Bina asha ke toh ye duniya bhi nahin chal sakti duniya ko banane wali super power ( Bhagwan / allah / god ya anay koi ) ne bhi kisi na kisi asha mai hi sansar ko banaya hoga or pirtyek vayakti ek dusare ke sath kisi na kisi asha mai hi jurta ya bandhata ya sath rahataa hai lekin mera kahana ye hai ki humari asha ek seema mai hi honi chahiye or agar samane wala humari asha ko kisi karan se pura nahin kar pata hai toh hume uaske sath aapne sambandh nahin bigarne chahiye.

दुनिया को जीत भी लो तो क्या                                    (duniya ko jeet bhi lo toh kya
                            जिंदगी मौत से हार जाएगी,                                jindagi mout se haar jayegi
चालाकी से पा भी ली मंज़िलें अगर                                           (chalaki se paa bhi li manjilai agar
                            खुदा की मंज़िल ना मिल पाएगी,                          khuda ki manjil na mil payegi
सताने से कभी किसी को जमाने मे                                           (sataane se kabhi kisi ko jamane mai
                            रातौं मे ना कभी नीदें सुकून आएगी,                      ratoun mai na nidai sukun aayegi
इन्सानियत को रखना संभालकर अनिल                             (insaniyat ko rakhana sambhalkar anil
                            इन्सानियत ही तेरे साथ जाएगी.                          insaniyat hi tere sath jayegi